Rosenverse

This video is only accessible to Gold members. Log in or register for a free Gold Trial Account to watch.

Log in Register

Most conference talks are accessible to Gold members, while community videos are generally available to all logged-in members.

A Civic Designer's Guide to Mindful Conflict Navigation
Gold
Thursday, November 17, 2022 • Civic Design 2022
Share the love for this talk
A Civic Designer's Guide to Mindful Conflict Navigation
Speakers: Sylvie Abookire , Susan Abookire and Caitlyn Nalder
Link:

Summary

As civic designers, we are adept at listening well, understanding complex interactions between people and within systems, and identifying creative opportunities. Working on teams that often comprise many disciplines, perspectives, and motivations, we must approach teamwork with intention and importance. While differing opinions and interpersonal dynamics are inevitabilities of collaborative work, our civic design superpowers uniquely position us to navigate conflict skillfully. While tackling some of our communities’ toughest, most intractable challenges, we must care for ourselves and our teams too– so that we can live well and serve sustainably. This session will begin with guided self-reflection. We will then explore conflict navigation through a lens of mindfulness, systems-thinking, and human-centered design.

Key Insights

  • Conflict navigation focuses on self-awareness and co-creating solutions rather than merely managing or mediating conflicts.

  • Mindfulness practices provide essential space for curiosity and compassion, critical for navigating conflict effectively.

  • Collusion is a dynamic where both parties perpetuate conflict by provoking behaviors they claim to oppose, creating a positive feedback loop.

  • Visualizing conflict dynamics through tools like collusion diagrams increases visibility and helps identify intervention points.

  • Designers' skills in questioning assumptions and deep listening are powerful tools to disrupt conflict and foster connection.

  • Positive feedback loops in conflict can escalate tensions but also be leveraged for positive transformation when redirected.

  • Checking assumptions about others’ intentions can reveal alternative explanations and reduce misinterpretations.

  • Building relationships with influencers around difficult stakeholders can open new pathways for conflict resolution.

  • Psychological safety within teams is foundational for transparency and open communication that prevents or resolves conflicts.

  • A conflict navigation pyramid guides individuals through mindful self-connection, relationship-building, listening, and finally teaching/co-creating solutions.

Notable Quotes

"Conflict navigation is about creating self-awareness of how you are in conflict and understanding your worldview and identity."

"Mindfulness gives us the space to bring curiosity and compassion, which are essential in navigating conflict."

"Collusion is a dynamic process where both parties perpetuate conflict by inviting the very behaviors they say they are fighting against."

"When we visualize each step of conflict, like in the collusion diagram, it illuminates opportunities for intervention and change."

"As designers, our superpower is questioning assumptions and critically thinking about the problems we face."

"Positive feedback loops can spiral a minor conflict into a major disruption but can also be powerful tools for transformation."

"Checking in with others directly helps build understanding and can turn conflict back into connection."

"When you’re centered and mindful, you’re much more effective in influencing and engaging with others."

"If you don’t have access to the main person causing conflict, build relationships with people who influence them."

"Psychological safety is essential to create an atmosphere where it’s safe to speak up and be imperfect."

Simon Wardley
Maps and Topographical Intelligence (Videoconference)
2019 • Enterprise Community
Sarah Barrett
AI in Real Life: Using LLMs to Turbocharge Microsoft Learn
2025 • Rosenfeld Community
Husani Oakley
Bias Towards Action: Building Teams that Build Work
2018 • Enterprise Experience 2018
Gold
Jorge Arango
Exploding the Notebook: How to Unlock the Power of Linked Notes (2nd of 3 seminars) (Videoconference)
2024 • Rosenfeld Community
Michaela Mora
Advanced Concept Testing Approaches To Guide Product Development and Business Decisions
2022 • Advancing Research 2022
Gold
Zen Ren
Taking Inspiration from Instructional Design for Research
2022 • Advancing Research 2022
Gold
Jayne Engle
Civic Design for the Next Seven Generations—A Discussion on Sacred Civics (Videoconference)
2022 • Civic Design Community
Mark Templeton
Creating a Legacy: the ultimate experience
2017 • Enterprise Experience 2017
Gold
Matt Duignan
HITS, Microsoft's internal human insight system: From research library to living body of knowledge (Videoconference)
2019 • Advancing Research Community
Karen McGrane
AI for Information Architects: Are the robots coming for our jobs?
2024 • Rosenfeld Community
Tristin Oldani
Turning awareness into action with Climate UX
2025 • Climate UX Interest Group (Rosenfeld Community)
Sam Proulx
To Boldly Go: The New Frontiers of Accessibility
2022 • Design at Scale 2022
Gold
Jamie Beck Alexander
How can you find your role in climate? (Videoconference)
2024 • Climate UX Interest Group (Rosenfeld Community)
Barb Spanton
Doing Work That Matters: A Look Beyond The Idealistic Notion of 'Doing Meaningful Work'
2022 • Design at Scale 2022
Gold
Bas Raijmakers, PhD (RCA)
What Design Research can Learn from Documentary Filmmaking
2022 • Advancing Research 2022
Gold
Sarah Williams
A Framework for CX Transformation
2021 • Design at Scale 2021
Gold

More Videos

Bria Alexander

"Without our sponsors, this programming simply would not be possible."

Bria Alexander Louis Rosenfeld

Welcome

September 8, 2022

Mike Oren

"Pharmaceutical research is all about failing ideas as quickly and cheaply as possible."

Mike Oren

Why Pharmaceutical's Research Model Should Replace Design Thinking

March 28, 2023

Jodi Forlizzi

"Sophisticated AI isn’t always needed; sometimes what’s really needed is a better website, not a fancy chatbot."

Jodi Forlizzi

Design and AI innovation

June 5, 2024

Bria Alexander

"Our sponsors bring so much color and light into the community; the conference really would not happen without them."

Bria Alexander

Opening Remarks

October 3, 2023

Michael Weir

"Good research has to be evidence-based, customized, tangible, and ethical to be valuable."

Michael Weir

Mixed Methods and Behavioural Science (Videoconference)

May 26, 2023

Molly Fargotstein

"We give out stickers for research participation, which people love and it sparks company-wide conversations about UX research."

Molly Fargotstein

Multipurpose Communication & UX Research Marketing (Videoconference)

September 12, 2019

Verónica Urzúa

"There are many ways to be a good researcher; Latin researchers should create our standards and fight for them."

Verónica Urzúa Jorge Montiel

The B-side of the Research Impact

March 12, 2021

Husani Oakley

"Knowledge management and IA help folks find, make sense of, and importantly learn from the content they need."

Husani Oakley

Theme Two Intro

June 6, 2023

George Abraham

"You get real coded components and layouts that developers can drag, drop, and extend immediately without rebuilding."

George Abraham Stefan Ivanov

Design Systems To-Go: Reimagining Developer Handoff, and Introducing App Builder (Part 2)

October 1, 2021